Thursday, April 2, 2009

Of Tears and Tasers...

This morning I went to a neighboring community to talk to realtors about safety at their monthly meeting. Immediately afterward, I went to the home of a dear 71 year old women who lived in the same neighborhood. "A" had called me yesterday, saying she had been at my neighborhood watch meeting in Dec. and that she wanted to buy a TASER. Her timing could not have been better, because this neighborhood is about 30 miles away.

I remembered "A" when she opened her door to greet me. She is recently widowed, having lost her beloved husband of 52 years only five months ago. We talked about him a bit and how she was doing. Although talking about "B" and her loss brought about some tears for her, I could tell she was glad to share with me about their wonderful, adventurous life together. "B" was a 30 year career Army officer and "A" a very proud Army wife. As she recalled their escapades and shared the details of his last day, there were both tears and smiles.

I spent quite a bit of time with "A" making sure she was very comfortable with her new TASER C2 (she chose the Fashion Pink color). By the time she shot a cartridge into the target, I knew she would not hesitate to use the TASER C2 if she needs to. Personally, I enjoyed the time together. With this new business, I find I am spending quite a bit of time with seniors, especially senior women, and I enjoy hearing their stories. This business is not all about TASERS and safety. It is about relationships with people.

As I was walking out the door, I felt the time "A" and I had shared was special and asked if it was ok if I hugged her. She responded with one of the biggest hugs I've gotten in awhile. Then she told me that if I ever needed someone to stand up for me and talk about the TASER C2 that she would be glad to do it. Then she said the words that make this all worthwhile, "I feel safer."

And, that my friends, is when the tears fell from my eyes.

8 comments:

  1. Awww... that is wonderful! Knowing that you have helped this woman feel safer and more confident must feel great, but being a friend to her is priceless.

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  2. I love the relationships you are making with your customers. Such a blessing to that lady to have someone to share her life with and to be heard. And the Hug was the icing on the cake. Both of these things are free and mean so much to people. Bless you for being a friend to her and oh yeah, the TASER C2 and feeling safe, over the top. Have a wonderful weekend.

    Love and Hugs, Laurie

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  3. I see what you mean, I would have been glad that she felt safer too!

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  4. What a neat post...So glad to find your blog....Hope you will visit me. I am a new blogger and have lots to learn.

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  5. Hi Lisa,

    Thank you so much for your visit today. You can count on me praying for this young couple who you will bless by taking them in. Let me know if I can be of any help to you for them. If you need some money or baby clothes or anything. My heart hurts for them and I am so thankful you are there for them, sharing Gods love. I don't have your email address so just let me know if you need me okay? Love you girl and God bless you for your loving heart.

    Love and Hugs, Laurie

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  6. Hi Lisa,

    Just checking in on you this evening to see how things are going with your new house guests. Is this what the new blog is? It says invite only so just know that I am praying that the adjustments all around are going gently and smooth. Praying for her and the baby and for you too. I love your heart for opening your home.

    Love and Hugs, Laurie

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  7. (((Lisa))) I am so proud of you! If more people would just reach out to others, like you do, imagine the possibilities. :) Thinking one of your Taser's might be just the answer for Katie. I will tell her about them and see what we can do! Love ya lots! (((HUGS)))
    Cindy (G'Ma) :)

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  8. Ah Lisa, what a beautiful story! BTW I just nominated you for an award, I'm finishing it up so if you go and don't see it, come back later!

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